Im just saying

I know this is Cummings writing about soldiers, but it's a good reminder to keep from making the same mistakes.

the boys i mean are not refined, by E. E. Cummings

the boys i mean are not refined
they go with girls who buck and bite
they do not give a fuck for luck
they hump them thirteen times a night

one hangs a hat upon her tit
one carves a cross on her behind
they do not give a shit for wit
the boys i mean are not refined

they come with girls who bite and buck
who cannot read and cannot write
who laugh like they would fall apart
and masturbate with dynamite

the boys i mean are not refined
they cannot chat of that and this
they do not give a fart for art
they kill like you would take a piss

they speak whatever's on their mind
they do whatever's in their pants
the boys i mean are not refined
they shake the mountains when they dance

Word of the day: trite

-adj- (of a remark, saying etc) that no longer has any worth, effectiveness etc

Dictionary Example: His poetry is full of trite descriptions of nature.

Real life example: Girl: "I should know you wouldn't get it.  Just let it go"  Boy:  "so have you seen this show whale wars?"  :)

My Top Ten Favorite Nietzsche quotes:

10.  And we should consider every day lost on which we have not danced at least once. And we should call every truth false which was not accompanied by at least one laugh.
Recently there have been a lot of days without dancing for me, mainly due to exams.  And there have been a lot of truths that came without laughs, and I am sure when grades come out, there will be a lot more.  

9.  I would believe only in a God that knows how to Dance.
Some people I know have a Shiva in their locker.  Unfortunately, it is a regular Shiva, not the nataraja Shiva, so I guess I can't believe in it, or them.  ;)  Luckily for me, a lot of people in my life know how to dance, so I can believe in them instead.

8.  The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.
Lonely often, or alone often, or both?  Hmm...

7.  Perhaps I know best why it is man alone who laughs; he alone suffers so deeply that he had to invent laughter.
Although, I could swear I've seen dogs laugh. 

6.  The irrationality of a thing is no argument against its existence, rather a condition of it.
This explains a lot of my life.  Seriously.

5.  Wit is the epitaph of an emotion.
But what if you are a Hindu and believe in cremation?  Then you have no epitaphs!  I guess you're safe then.

4.  Whoever battles with monsters had better see that it does not turn him into a monster. And if you gaze long into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you.
Perhaps this is especially fitting for those in the legal profession?

3.  Character is determined more by the lack of certain experiences than by those one has had.
This might actually be #1.   I think about this a lot with people my age, and how many of us believe in the who "no [immediate] harm done, no foul" mentality.  I have to believe, more than just the  lack of engaging in  openly harmful behavior, the choices people make to not engage in certain behaviors/lifestyles also says a lot about them.  Like Rubin's vase, maybe character is about the negative space also.  And also like a Rubin vase, maybe there are two equally valid interpretations.  Or maybe, just like Rubin's vase, it actually is all black and white.  Life = Rubin's vase?  I think I may be onto something big here.

2.  Of all that is written, I love only what a person has written with his own blood.
Metaphorically speaking...

1.  Is life not a thousand times too short for us to bore ourselves?
A question you may be asking yourself if you have read this far.